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Carnegie grandfather in the 50's of last century, pointed to most raspostronennoe delusion of all mankind, he gave an example of a maniac killer who the court did not feel than the guilty. Let's look at why this is occurs. There are so-called "protective reaction", they include a lot of psychological reaction to attack the "ego" for example, "intellectualization" We also are interested in this issue "projection." The projection means that the person distorts reality and the quality of their projects the world around them or person. He says the world is cruel, and thus justifies his cruelty, as well as its other disadvantages. Next is "rationalization," he says the bad man the last scum and why should I be in something wrong. Nouriel Roubini: the source for more info. And this even though he could have done with this bad man the worst way. In conclusion, say the following with protective reactions of the ego, the man always finds a self-defense and justification. But there is one way to break this Bastille, Dale Carnegie discovered it in my opinion quite by accident.

Let's say you're with someone fell out and every one of you in something was not right (You are of course mutually consider yourself angels). But if you take the phone and type in her abuser and completely take all the veins on ourselves here and then the person will feel uncomfortable. That is defending itself in response to it he will apologize and say that he is not around he was right. If this does not happen, I would not recommend further konfrantirovat with this man, he finds reasons in 1000, he was right, as it generally happens. Sincerely yours, Krapivner Eugene.

All of you got into that situation. There is a clear period of time – (for example, five days) and a specific list of tasks (for example, choose a wallpaper for the room to find the network movie, go to the pool, learn 50 foreign words, call distant relatives, to write an article) that must be completed during this period. It would seem all clear, but over time, especially towards the end of this period we notice the dissatisfaction that has been done, not all of this list, but time is somewhere delos. What happened? Where does the time? Such situations are not uncommon in my personal life, work, rest, in every area of our business. Much of this dissatisfaction is based on the fact that we squeezing into the small amount of time a significant number of cases, ‘give an unrealistic plan’, as the famous movie character. If you look at this situation more soberly, it is possible to avoid disappointment at the unjustified loss of personal and others’ time. For example, you have 6 hours to develop a specific project.

Lay out the steps on the job ‘shelves’ according to priority. Now imagine your typical working day, and determine how much time you are using on. .. start If, for example, that one-third of the time, the actual time that you can work on a task will be equal to four hours. Also note that the time required for . Switch. with phase.

buildup. to work well in an average of eight minutes. How many times have you suspended for a smoke break at work? For example, suppose you break ten times throughout the day, ie Eighty minutes. Subtract those 80 minutes of four hours, you get a little over two hours is really working time. Compare this time with the initial six hours working vremeni.Teper clear that you do not have time to perform the required amount of work in supplied time. Acceptance of this fact will help you avoid disappointment and resentment of the fact that you can not manage to do the work in the allotted time frame for myself. To increase efficiency, we need to reduce unproductive expenditure of time. What about breaks? Can I install a voice mail instead of continuous responses to the calls? If you need to call in a few places, call the turn in a short period of time, do not tighten it all day. What about email? Group the homogeneous problems, if they do not require immediate action. Now think again about two hours available.

And our ideas about ourselves are often based on ideas of our associates. Assessment of us others could be negative for the negligence, carelessness and speech evaluations, insensitivity, lack of understanding the significance of their estimates, and to lie deep in the subconscious mind, become our internal representation of itself. Psychoanalysts believe that complex – it is an integral part of mental life. They contain not only the obstacles, but also can become the impetus for any challenges. For example, each person from birth have a sense of deficiency, which contributes to personal development.

Feeling a sense, a man stepped up its activities to become more perfect. But when you change the perception of inferiority, feeling of inferiority transformed into a kind of complex. A person with this complex to get rid of feelings of inferiority due to more imaginary physical and psychological disabilities, to pursue rise above the others in all possible ways. This condition leads to the development of neurosis. Psychological complex – it's a misconception people about their physical or psychological disabilities, their exaggeration, accompanied by concealed from outsiders experiences. Our systems – this is, above all, fear.

Fear not cope with the task, not to please others, to make a mistake or simply make a bad impression. Therefore, the struggle with the complexes should start with getting rid of fear. First you need to recognize and acknowledge the fact that the complexes have everyone. But the whole secret lies in the fact that people are more interested in their their own systems than those of others. So, if you do not every time to focus on their faults, they are likely they will not notice, but, seeing very soon about them forget. The main thing – just take yourself as you are. But it happens that the complexes are connected with life's challenges are too large, on their own to deal with them very hard and then not do without the help of a psychologist. Psycho and training personal growth can dramatically change your perception of yourself, they will learn to love yourself and send your resources to your own self. A new look at yourself will make it possible to change your attitude toward the world and to send their forces to self-destructive behaviors, and to improve their internal world.